Monday, June 12, 2006

Seeing Snow Seeking Sydney...

And here I am! Again! Helo. First things first, I have reached 1000 contacts! Yeha! Only 99 000 to go and then I can retire :)  There was a mistake on my last post calculation , it should have been 790 + 56 + 15 = 861, that day(Wed 7 june) I hit  my ultimate record in contacts by making 180 in total that day, thus giving 805 + 180 = 985. I started my 4 day tour from Melbourne to Sydney that Thursday and had definately talked to more than 15 people in those 4 days. So beyond any reason of doubt and confusion I  have made 1000+ contacst from 15th May! But now you are thinking exactly what the hell is a contact he keeps yapparing on about? Is a telling people my story? Is it touching them with a electrical wire? Is it holding hands? What counts as a contact? Here goes........

Hein'zes definition of a contact: Approaching a person to verbally translate my thoughts is a contact. But it is only a contact if my intentions are to use eloquent speech, and use good McGuire technique. (Take a pause, Breath full costal breat, speak, release residual air). If I speak only to speak, it doesn't count, it is bad infact , bad dog!. Even if it is fleuntly, still bad dog! Because that is the road of thoughts I had when I still stuttered severely. And if I speak only to speak and stutter like in 'em old days....ooohh.. very bad dog!Then it is best to cancel that and repeat the (bad dog word!) with good technique. Then lastly: Speaking eloquently is not neccesary perfectly fluently. It means being in control of what you say. I use voluntary stuttering when I speak, to practice control, and also to show people my intentions. Of course the ultimate super dooper contact is when I disclose to strangers my story and what I am doing. Of my 1000 contacts about 350 were disclosures, and that feels good.

O ja, my trip........ kangaroos, wombats, rainforest, mountain walks, sqeuky beach, rosellas (pretty parrot), caves, wine tasting, snowy river, snowy mountains, snow, cold hands, zip wire, vegetarian food, buddist meditation, emu's, 1000 year old trees, hydro electric scheme, parlaiment house and now I am in Sydney! See added photo's!

The last four day's I didn't do vey much talking. Spent many hours on the bus looking at the coutryside and getting lost in my thoughts. I'm reading a book from Susan Jeffers "Feel the fear and do it anyway" which I highly recommend for anyone. I modified my motto from "Face your fear and your fear will disappear" to an affirmation "I am facing my fears, and my fears are disappearing"       why wait for IT to happen!?        It is happening!

   

Posted by Hein van der Merwe at 01:49:48 | Permanent Link | Comments (5) |
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1 - Baie geluk Hein!!
Well done!
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Written by: Jacques Naude (Recovering Stutterer) at 2006/06/12 - 08:53:15
2 - Baie geluk Boetie Beer!!

Ekt geweet daai 1000 tal sal sommer gou daar wees!! Bly dit gaan goed.

Mis en lief jou BAIE!!

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Written by: Marthie at 2006/06/12 - 15:24:37
3 - Hey Hein, dit klink wonderlik! Ek geniet jou dagboek baie, jy maak my so lus om ook so iets te doen. Is so bly jy trek al by 1000, jy vorder baie goed!

Geniet dit!
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Written by: Mariette at 2006/06/13 - 07:42:37
4 - Hey daar ou grote. Bly om te hoor dit gaan goed. Goose en my laat belowe ek sal vir jou 'n boodskap stuur dat sy jou trou vrou ontmoet het hier in Suid Afrika. Ons weet ons het gepraat dat jy haar oorsee gaan ontmoet, maar sy is redelik oortuig daarvan dat sy hier in Suid Afrika is. Ek sal vir jou detail lek soos wat ek dit kry. Goedgaan (Comment this)

Written by: Hoenner en Goose at 2006/06/13 - 12:43:33
5 - Hey! Alles wat mooi is vir jou Hein. Ons is wereld uit mekaar. Ek's hier in Vienna, jy in Sydney. Maar ek volg jou vriend. In die skadu's van jou effort staan ek en klap vir jou hande!

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Written by: Eben du Toit at 2006/06/16 - 10:57:03
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