Yesterday I enrolled myself in a splendid day in Taipei ( which is actually pronounced Tai Bei…) I took the bus from Hsinchu, the city I live in, for a cheap fair of 100NT ~ (R20, 3USD, 1.5 GBP, 2EUR) and arrived at Taipei Main Station 1hour 15minutes later. The very convenient underground trains (MRT) allow very easy and fast transportation within the city to all major attractions in all directions. My first stop was the Sun-Yet-San memorial hall. This is a large public park and museum portraying the life of a man that is said to be the founder of modern china.

From there I strolled to Taipei 101 (2^nd tallest building in the world) clearly visible from almost anywhere in the city. On the way I took a snap of a family of four also enjoying a day in the city. Speeding past the all the expensive-brand-high-class-shops I spent a few hours in a PageOne, a large and spacious bookshop that holds the largest collection of travel books that I have ever seen. It also has a good selection of books aiding those who wish to learn mandarin chinese, I would highly recommend this shop to any bookworm. My next stop was the Chiang Kai-Shek memorial hall dedicated to Taiwan’s one-time dictator. Unfortunately the copper statue has been removed due to some political jazz and the name has also been changed. But nonetheless I enjoyed the museum and especially the Big Bulletproof Cadillac that he owned. An artifact that really caught my eye was a microscopic carving on ivory of Dr. Sun-Yet-Sun’s will and platform for national reconstruction in a portrait of Late President Chiang.

My religious site for the day was Longshan temple that dates back to 1738. I am very proud of this snap I took of the artificial waterfall outside the temple. I entered the temple and was overwhelmed by the smell of burning incense combined with a assortment of red and cold colors on columns and carvings. A short walk from the temple I visited the Snake Alley night market where old and young trade in everything from tea, peanuts, foot massages, fruits, sweets, meats and yes, even snakes and amphibians. This most famous market was very cheerful and lively and yet not too crowded at the time I visited. (6-8 pm).

Another definite exciting site recommended for any traveller

Do you think jokes about stammering are funny? People who stammer (PWS) like myself go through a huge amount of emotional and physical turmoil in most speaking situations. To be ridiculed, teased, mocked and made fun about that does not help in any way and can cause emotional damage. People who stammer should not be stereotyped as being nervous, stupid or low in confidence. I respect my listener and I expect to be respected as well. There are several videos on Youtube about stammering that has been classified under “Comedy”. I have signed a petition asking that these videos be reclassified.

Anybody that would like to support me and other PWS on this viewpoint can sign the petition at http://www.petitiononline.com/nojoke/petition.html.

I would never wish a day of blocking on anybody………it’s not funny.

I have finally set my heart and mind on a new mantra that is most applicable in my current state of mind.

As you will see it reads “Learn to know what to do, and then do what you know”.

Many times I catch myself thinking “I don’t know what to do!” “I don’t know what to do with my speech, I don’t know what to do with this word, I don’t know what to do with this situation, I don’t know what to do with my finances, I don’t know what to do with these two spare hours I have in front of me, I don’t know what to do with this relationship, I don’t know what to do on this trip, I don’t know what to do with this extra day I have free, I don’t know what to do with my life! Etc. etc.”

The trick that my mind is playing  is that it creates the illusion that there is an absence of knowledge or positive experiences. This is of course false in most cases. My mind does this maybe out of lack of confidence, concentration and maybe because it is a habit?

I believe that by asking a different question I gain different results. I now ask “Am I doing what I know?” which indicates that I have in the past successfully handled a similar situation, and I need only to concentrate in taking the correct action.

Thus a new recipe:

1. Find out what you need to know.
2. Study it, learn it, practice it.
3. Use it to gain a positive, successful outcome.
4. Keep doing it to form a habit.
5. If you find after some time you are slipping back into the old habits and thinking “I don’t know what to do ……boohoohoo” --> go back to step 1.

Just a quick report on an incident I had a few moments ago. I went to our local convenient store to pay some bills and also add credit to my mobile phone. I approached the situation quick confidently and formulated the sentence in my head. With my best effort I said (in Chinese) “I want to pay this bill AND I want to sell a mobile phone credit”. After the initial confusion on the poor cashier’s face she handed me the book of mobile phone vouchers so that I could choose the one I wanted. It was at that moment I realized that I had said “sell” and not “buy”. The phonics of these two words are identical “mai” but the tones differ. Sell – mai having a downward tone . Buy – mai has an down-up tone v. I started laughing at myself and entered into such a giggling state that I forget to utter the well rehearsed line “Sorry, my Chinese is not very good”. They say that a healthy person is one who can laugh at himself and his own mistakes. For 15 minutes today I was in a very healthy state of mind :)